ESTJ / Virgo
Who is an Executive (ESTJ)?
Executives are individuals with the Extraverted, Sensing, Thinking and Judging personality traits. They tend to be hardworking, devoted and responsible people who value tradition and order. Task-oriented, executives live in the present and are known for being wellorganized, practical and focused.
Diligent and observant, these folks think clearly, learn quickly, and gain enormous satisfaction in serving, healing, and helping to bring order, perfection, and practicality to their world. Cool and conscientious, they are typically able to carefully discern between what is skillful and useful, and what is not. Too busy working on improving themselves and the world around them, they are often humble and modest and are usually too earthy and sensible to become arrogant and self-aggrandizing. They live in a world of facts and concrete needs. They live in the present, with their eye constantly scanning their personal environment to make sure that everything is running smoothly and systematically. They honor traditions and laws, and have a clear set of standards and beliefs. They expect the same of others, and have no patience or understanding of individuals who do not value these systems. They value competence and efficiency, and like to see quick results for their efforts.
Executive/Virgo are take-charge people. They have such a clear vision of the way that things should be, that they naturally step into leadership roles. They are self-confident and aggressive. They are extremely talented at devising systems and plans for action, and at being able to see what steps need to be taken to complete a specific task. They can sometimes be very demanding and critical, because they have such strongly held beliefs, and are likely to express themselves without reserve if they feel someone isn't meeting their standards. But at least their expressions can be taken at face-value, because they are extremely straight-forward and honest.
Just because Executive/Virgos may seem conservative, this doesn't mean they are so in intimate relationships. They know their mind and their emotions run deep beneath the surface. Their sexiness isn't an 'in your face' style, but more about action versus words. Being 'earthier' than most other personality combos and as such they value stability and loyalty from their lover. As pertains to romantic intimacy this means they are more of a 'quality vs. quantity' lover and prefer committed relationships over one night stands. Expect to be loved solidly by your Executive/Virgo. They may not verbalize their adoration as much as others, but they will still show the strength of their love via actions and gestures. Highly committed to their love relationships, they are partners who will do their utmost to ensure stability and safety for their loved ones and their household. They value traditions and social norms - and expect their love relationships to follow a prescribed path of dating and getting married. They don’t like playing around with frivolous relationships but begin with the end in mind. They take their marriage covenants very seriously.
These people might show difficulty in expressing emotions and feeling empathy. People with the Executive/Virgo personality combo get so caught up in the facts and most effective methods that they forget to think of what makes others happy, or of their sensitivity. A detour can be breathtakingly beautiful, a joy for the family, but these people may only see the consequence of arriving at their destination an hour late, hurting their loved ones by rejecting the notion too harshly.
Difficulty expressing emotions