ENFJ / Virgo
Who is a Protagonist (ENFJ)?
Protagonists are individuals with the Extraverted, Intuitive, Feeling and Judging personality traits. They tend to be warm, persuasive and talkative people with great social skills. Being global learners, protagonists usually pay more attention to the bigger picture, rather than smaller details.
Paying attention to the smallest details, looking for order and beauty in everything. Everything Protagonist/Virgo does ripples outward and affects everyone. Their posture can shine or transmit anxiety. Their breath can radiate love or muddy the room in depression. Their methodical approach to life ensures that nothing is left to chance, and although they are often tender, their heart might be closed to the outer world. This is a personality sometimes misunderstood, simply because they won’t accept their feelings as valid and therefor might have a hard time expressing themselves. As part Virgo, they are born with a feeling they are experiencing everything for the first time. The interest they have in others is genuine, almost to a fault – when they believe in someone, they can become too involved in the other person’s problems and place too much trust in them. Luckily, this trust tends to be a self-fulfilling prophecy, as their altruism and authenticity inspire those they care about to become better themselves.
The Protagonist/Virgo dislikes rudeness and can be rather judgemental towards others as well as themselves. Seeking good in others is otherwise one of their strongest points. They are genuine, caring people who talk the talk and walk the walk, and nothing makes them happier than leading the charge, uniting and motivating their team with infectious enthusiasm. They hate to be let down and are good at planning forward with a good level of control. And while they may seem shy at first, they have a rich inner life and make great friends for life. Lovers of language and knowledge they make great leaders as well as enthusiastic teachers. This personality will surely be a great mentor, burning with the desire to make you the best you, fulfilling your full potential.
In love they might be a bit overly critical of themselves and in their quest to make everything perfect they may procrastrinate and have a hard time making decisions. They will also rather show you how they feel, rather than tell you in words, so pay atteintion to all the little details that they put into the everyday life of your relationship. Protagonist/ Virgo are always ready to show their commitment by taking the time and effort to establish themselves as dependable, trustworthy partners and they’ll appreciate even the tiniest tokens of affection that prove you’ve payed attention, such as getting them their favourite flower or playing their favourite music. Ultimately they are known to be dependable lovers, perhaps more interested in routine and stability than spontaneity in their sex lives, but always dedicated to the selfless satisfaction of their partners.
Protagonist/Virgo want to be the best friends possible, and it shows in how they work to find out not just the superficial interests of their friends, but their strengths, passions, hopes and dreams. Nothing makes them happier than to see the people they care about do well, and they are more than happy to take their own time and energy to help make it happen. Above all they want to help. They are kind, gentle and supportive friends who use their incredible intellect and resourcefulness to solve every possible problem.
Overly critical of self and others
All work no play
Struggle to make decisions