ENFJ / Libra
Who is a Protagonist (ENFJ)?
Protagonists are individuals with the Extraverted, Intuitive, Feeling and Judging personality traits. They tend to be warm, persuasive and talkative people with great social skills. Being global learners, protagonists usually pay more attention to the bigger picture, rather than smaller details.
Here comes a leader obsessed with balance, symmetry and a craving to create equilibrium in all areas of life. Intellectual and warm, with a passion for anything beautiful there’s no surprise you might find these people leading a fashion brand, being stylists or art critics. They can navigate virtually any social situation, effortlessly resolving conflicts by simply turning on the charm, known for taking leadership in diplomacy and social justice. The Protagonist/ Libra possess a natural surface cleverness and a swift humor that make them fantastic company!
When in a relationship, they have to be careful not to seek validation outside of that relationship. Since they have a tendency to want to keep everybody happy at the same time, they might find themselves tempted to push the limits. They have to remember that the happiness of their loved ones and the health of their relationship is more important than maintaining the attention of disitant admirers. Their Intuitive trait helps them to keep up with the rapidly shifting moods that are common early in relationships, but they will still rely on conversations about their mutual feelings, checking the pulse of the relationship by asking how things are. While this can help to keep conflict, which Protagonist/ Libra abhor, they also risk being overbearing or needy. Keep in mind that sometimes the only thing that’s wrong is being asked what’s wrong too often. For these people everything is better if it’s done as a pair. Protagonist/Libra feel most complete when they are coupled up with their lover, forever.
Quick learners and excellent multitaskers, people with the Protagonist/Libra personality type are able to take on multiple responsibilities with competence and good cheer. Hardworking, reliable and eager to help – this can however be a double-edged sword, as some will take advantage of their excellent quality of character by making too many requests and overburdening them with extra work. Conflict-averse and trying to avoid unnecessary criticism, they will in all likelihood accept these extra tasks in an attempt to maintain a positive impression and frictionless environment. They’re great listeners, but also great gossipers! They love information, news and education, soaking up the world like a charming sponge. And it’s interesting how these people, who love peace and equilibrium, still can’t resist the urge to gossip, knowing that it might well backfire.
The Protagonist/Libra strive for fairness and justice constantly, and they love the law. Constantly going over right and wrong in their minds. However there’s a risk that they’re biased in their own favor. So don’t be surprised when this person has suddenly made you think it’s your own idea that they should have the biggest room, the best seat or the most of just about anything. In their minds it makes total sense. They also love beautiful things. If if looks good, it is good, end of story. They like to shop, especially elegant, good quality pieces which they can show off to others. People with this personality type enjoy helping their friends, and it is important to show that you accept and appreciate what they have to offer. However, it is also important that you offer your support in return. They are not always good at asking for help when they need it. In many cases, simply being willing to listen to whatever they have to share can be very helpful.