ENFJ / Gemini
Who is a Protagonist (ENFJ)?
Protagonists are individuals with the Extraverted, Intuitive, Feeling and Judging personality traits. They tend to be warm, persuasive and talkative people with great social skills. Being global learners, protagonists usually pay more attention to the bigger picture, rather than smaller details.
Protagonist/Gemini think more than the feel or do. Words will be their weapon of choice and you’ll have a hard time winning an argument with this person. They know bits and pieces of everything and are not known for being sentimental or overly emotional. This however doesn’t mean that they don’t care. They just focus on problem solving and adore dissecting thorny issues. They want to know it all and might have a hard time keeping secrets. These people are very adaptable, spoiled plans won’t ruin their day, they’ll just think of something better to do. Protagonist/Gemini instinctively know how to capture an audience, and pick up on mood and motivation in ways that allow them to communicate, whatever the situation calls for.
This person likes to be the center of attention and will most likely be the life of every party they attend. Lively, youthful, curious and fun. They also have a tendency to be too hard on themselves, blaming themselves for when things go wrong and not giving themselves enough credit when things go right. They are good at bringing consensus among diverse people. For this reason, they can be outstanding leaders and bring an enthusiasm to a group that can be motivating and inspirational. They’re curious and are willing to try everything at least once and they don’t mind going first, showing the way. They are high-energy people who dislike spending too much time alone. They also tend to talk more than they listen.
They make great company, but they are hard to pin down in any way, so they are notoriously easier to connect with as friends than partners. Maintaining relationships can swiftly overwhelm them and then they have a tendency to just cut off. They have very good people skills, and are affectionate and considerate and once they have made a decision they are warmly affirming to their partner. They excel at bringing out the best in others, and warmly supporting them. Protagonist/Gemini want responding affirmation from their relationships, although they have a problem asking for it. And when a situation calls for it, they will become very sharp and critical. After having made their point however, they will return to their natural, warm selves.
Protagonist/Gemini are interested in all sorts of people, and are likely to be able to understand and relate to all of the personality types. They tend to be more reserved about exposing themselves than other extraverted types. Their strongest interest lies in being a catalyst of change in other people so they're likely to interact with others on their own level, in a chameleon-like manner, rather than as individuals. Living in the world of possibilities, they enjoy their plans more than their achievements. They get excited about possibilities for the future, but may become easily bored and restless with the present.