ESFJ / Virgo
Who is a Consul (ESFJ)?
Consuls are individuals with the Extraverted, Sensing, Feeling and Judging personality traits. They tend to be friendly, supportive and empathetic people with great social skills. As genuine people persons, consuls are often described as natural caretakers who love to help others.
Consul/Virgo know that hard work pays off. They aren't afraid to throw themselves into a project, no matter what it takes, and may even go some sleepless nights. They throw themselves into their creativity as much as their other passions. You'll be hard-pressed to find someone more responsible and reliable than a Consul/Virgo. When left in charge, they are sure to take their responsibilities seriously, and they'll always show up when you need them to. They have strong perfectionist tendencies, to the point where they can be very hard on themselves. They want to be someone who is perfect for those around them, striving to always do everything right. This makes it hard for them to accept when they have made a mistake or that they have flaws at all. They really want to always be the best they can be for the people around them, which puts a lot of pressure on themselves and even others at times.
People with the Consul/Virgo personality thrive on social order and harmony, and use their warmth and social intelligence to make sure that each person knows their responsibilities and is able to get done what needs to get done. They are comfortable, even dependent on clear hierarchies and roles, and whether subordinates, colleagues or managers, and expect authority to be respected and backed up by rules and standards. Their critical thinking and analysis skills mean that they are always looking for the next big thing and how to improve on their work. But they have to beware of their critical tendencies at work, and make sure they have their filters on so that they don't say things they can't take back and jeopardize opportunities.
Everyone falls in love differently and each person has their own response to these powerful emotions. For the Consul/ Virgo falling in love can be a process, since they are fearful of jumping into anything unless they are sure of it. They might have a hard time taking love seriously, but they aren’t always great at holding back once they develop feelings for someone. While they might be fearful at first, when they do fall they fall rather hard. They care so much about the people in their lives and just want to do whatever they can to make them happy. When they love someone it isn’t something they can shake off, and is going to last for a long time. Consul/Virgo thrive on deep and intellectual connections. They are supportive and loyal romantic partners, and take a deep interest in their loved one's interests and life. They will genuinely make an effort to get to know their partner's interests and their mind, and is subtle in expressing their feelings and showing their affections.
Few personality types are as practical as Consul/Virgos. Known for their social and administrative skills, they are good at creating and maintaining a secure, stable and friendly environment for themselves and their loved ones. Their dedication is invaluable in many areas, including their own personal growth. Whether it is finding (or keeping) a partner, learning to relax or improvise, reaching dazzling heights on the career ladder, or managing their workload, Consul/Virgo need to put in a conscious effort to develop their weaker traits and additional skills.