ESFJ / Capricorn
Who is a Consul (ESFJ)?
Consuls are individuals with the Extraverted, Sensing, Feeling and Judging personality traits. They tend to be friendly, supportive and empathetic people with great social skills. As genuine people persons, consuls are often described as natural caretakers who love to help others.
The Consul/Capricorn possess an inner state of independence that enables significant progress in both their personal and professional lives. At their hearts they are social creatures, and thrive on staying up to date with what their friends are doing. They will learn from their mistakes and get to the top based solely on their experience and expertise. they take seriously their responsibility to help and to do the right thing and are masters of self-control and have the ability to lead the way and manage people who work with them at any time. They can seem stiff and sometimes too stubborn to move from one perspective to another in a relationship, as well as feel restricted in their way of thinking. People with this personality type have a strong sense of responsibility and strive to meet their obligations, though this may sometimes be more from a sense of social expectations than drive.
Consul/Capricorn place a lot of importance on what is socially acceptable, and can be very cautious, even critical of anything unconventional or outside the mainstream. Helping to ensure that stability, these personalities seek harmony and care deeply about other people’s feelings, being careful not to offend or hurt anybody. They are strong team players, and win-win situations are the stuff smiles are made of. Consul/Capricorn are social, comfortable and well-liked. They have a strong need to “belong”, and have no problem with small talk or following social cues in order to help them take an active role in their communities.
It’s not easy to win over this personality in matters of the heart. Shown sensitivity comes over as acts rather than words, and years are often needed in order for them to open up to chat about their actual emotional problems. No other kind of relationship provides people with the same level of support and devotion, and the feelings of security and stability that come with strong romantic relationships are extremely warming. Although this isn’t a personality willing to compromise a lot, they will gladly act as a stepping stone to the one they love and lend full support to their dreams and endeavors, like the greatest cheerleader! Once you’ve won this person’s heart it will last a lifetime.
Consul/Capricorns are well-organized, enjoying bringing order and structure to their workplaces, and often work best in environments with clear, predictable hierarchies and tasks. Monotony and routine work are not a challenge for them as they are happy to do what needs to be done. They like rules and quite gladly stick to what’s been decided without hesitation. They prefer reality over uncatchable dreams, but isn’t afraid to set some of their more realistic dreams in motion. Their lives are often wrapped up in accomplishment and responsibility and they love to share their enthusiasm with as many people as possible.