INFP / Aries
Who is a Mediator (INFP)?
Meditators are individuals with the Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling and Perceiving personality traits. They tend to be creative, empathetic and individualistic people with a desire to create their own unique path in life. Highly thoughtful and considerate, meditators are known to be good listeners with an ability to make people in their surroundings feel at ease.
Mediator/Aries are focused on making the world a better place for people. Their primary goal is to find out their meaning in life. What is their purpose? How can they best serve humanity in their lives? They are idealists and perfectionists, who drive themselves hard in their quest for achieving the goals they have identified for themselves. They are curious and have a strong sense of justice. They often have a very positive attitude and are less inclined to feel pity for themselves than some other personality combos. If harnessed properly, the fire that burns inside them is something that will fuel their actions, and will push them to become defenders for both themselves and others. Mediator/Aries tend to give other people the benefit of the doubt. They aim to be tolerant of other people’s beliefs, lifestyles, and decisions. Generally speaking, they support others’ right to live as they see fit – as long as no one is being hurt.
When an idea or movement capture their imagination and speak to their beliefs, they can give their whole heart to it. People with this personality combo can be reserved or reticent, but that doesn’t diminish their strong feelings for a cause that matches their ideals. At times they can be quite hot headed, and given their propensity to seek out justice, they can sometimes find themselves in heated arguments. These people are flexible and laid-back, until one of their values is violated. In the face of their value system being threatened, they can become aggressive defenders, fighting passionately for their cause. When they have adopted a project or job which they're interested in, it usually becomes a "cause" for them. Although they are not detail-oriented individuals, they will cover every possible detail with determination and vigor when working for their "cause".
Though they experience extremely strong emotions internally, Mediator/Aries prefer to show their love by spending time with those they care about and engaging in the activities that they enjoy alongside them. To show your love to a Mediator/ Aries, set aside time specifically to spend with them. Join them in their favorite activities and learn about whatever it is that they’re passionate about. They will appreciate you taking an interest in the causes and activities that matter to them. Once you know them a little better, let them know explicitly how you feel about them – remind them regularly that you love and care about them deeply, and shower them with small acts of physical affection. On their good days, they are incredibly loving. When they’re in a bad mood, they’re disastrous forces of nature. This is because they shift between extremes. They’ll push you away when they’re upset or feeling vulnerable, and then they’ll come running back when they start missing you. To love a Mediator/Aries, you have to become a resolute pillar amid a roiling sea.
They are warm and loving with their loved ones. Whatever relationships they cultivate, they give all of their energy to those relationships. These people will be loyal towards their friends and family, not taking it well when they think that they are being threatened. They have very high standards and are perfectionists. Consequently, they are usually hard on themselves, and don't give themselves enough credit. They may have problems working on a project in a group, because their standards are likely to be higher than other members' of the group. In group situations, they may have a "control" problem. They need to work on balancing their high ideals with the requirements of every day living.