ENTJ / Libra
Who is a Commander (ENTJ)?
Commanders are individuals with the Extraverted, Intuitive, Thinking and Judging personality traits. They tend to be charismatic, direct, and analytical people who prefer to focus on the bigger picture. Being natural born leaders, commanders are often perceived as assertive and uninhibited people who won't hesitate expressing their opinion.
Commander/Libra like to weigh the best options for themselves and everyone else around them. When they make decisions, you can be assured that these decisions will give the best results for all parties involved. They want to be admired for their talents and their charm. They want to be seen as the responsible figure who can balance out the turbulent elements around them. They feel an intense amount of guilt and shame when they are unhappy because they know that their unhappiness affects everyone around them. They love to interact with people. There's nothing more enjoyable and satisfying to them than having a lively, challenging conversation. People with this personality type embody the gifts of charisma and confidence, and project authority in a way that draws crowds together behind a common goal. However, Commanders are also characterized by determination and sharp minds to achieve whatever end they’ve set for themselves.
They usually love physical exercise and tend to gravitate towards running and marathons. Meditation can be a great thing for them to do, as this helps create a space where they can make decisions and contemplate without interruptions. They will spend much of their time trying to establish an equilibrium between every part of themselves, and they will not be fully happy or fulfilled until they find and implement this balance. They want success, influence, and power, but may feel as though they have to work harder than other people to achieve it. Their self-worth pinned to external validation. This breeds unconscious resentment. If they feel bad about themselves for extended periods, it all becomes too much to hold in and they start to lash out at others. This is a way of deflecting their pain onto other people in order to avoid facing the truth about themselves.
These people value beauty. That’s why they often have excellent posture and eye contact. They are masters of dressing in a way that highlights their best physical features. They know that how they feel is directly related to how they look, and thus they use their appearance to express their moods. A Commander/Libra soulmate is someone who is agreeable without being a doormat. They need someone who can be there for them in their most disorienting moments. If they feel lost in the fog, their soulmate should be their lighthouse. To show them love, set time aside to spend with them one-on-one. Learn about what matters most to them in life and don’t shy away from participating in their favorite activities if they invite you along – this is their way of welcoming you into their world. When it comes to affection, they tend to appreciate physical touch, so don’t be afraid to initiate hugs or other forms of contact with them! This type is cuddlier than they initially let on. Words of affirmation or acts of service as their love language of choice – so make sure you are verbally expressing your love for them or running little errands for them from time to time – you never know what exactly ‘love’ looks like to your particular Commander/Libra!
People with this personality type embody the gifts of charisma and confidence in a way that draws crowds together behind a common goal. However, they also have a level of rationality, using their drive, determination and sharp minds to achieve whatever end they’ve set for themselves.