ENTJ / Gemini
Who is a Commander (ENTJ)?
Commanders are individuals with the Extraverted, Intuitive, Thinking and Judging personality traits. They tend to be charismatic, direct, and analytical people who prefer to focus on the bigger picture. Being natural born leaders, commanders are often perceived as assertive and uninhibited people who won't hesitate expressing their opinion.
They are very intelligent and pick up knowledge quickly. They are perceptive, analytical, and often very funny. They have an unreserved and childlike curiosity, always asking new questions. Commander/Geminis have an uncanny ability to size up a person’s character in a matter of seconds, even if they only just met them. If someone’s bluffing, they’ll be the first to notice. They are great communicators, very responsive and rather good listeners. They’re not afraid of their emotions, but they’re constantly worried about how they convey them, about their words being misconstrued. They’re afraid of getting caught up in an emotion that they can’t control. They simply react to their emotions, rather than feel them.
These people seek personal growth and inspiration, and they often have a plan for how to accomplish it. Friendships of circumstance, built on things like shared routines, are not their preferred method – rather, they pursue their friends, seek out individuals who share their passion for deep, meaningful discussions, and who enjoy learning and development as much as they do. It is not always easy to be their friends – they demand a lot from these relationships – but they pay a great deal of attention to their friendships, and it is unlikely that it will ever feel stagnant. They are often very motivated by success in their careers and enjoy hard work. They are ambitious and interested in gaining power and influence. To them, decision-making is a vocation. They want to be in a position to make the call and put plans into motion.
For the most part, Commander/Geminis fall in love fast. They are captivated by the glittering reflections of themselves that they see in other people. They are driven by a fundamental curiosity about who other people are, and who they might be around them. They can be equally quick to fall out of love. Sometimes they’re so quick to abandon ship that they end up having multiple relationships in a short period of time, usually with different people. They are easily bored, and they often start relationships with the intention of having fun, rather than actually wanting to get involved with someone. To receive love from a Commander/Gemini, notice the ways in which they’re rearranging their schedule in order to spend time around you. They may not be quick to express their love overtly but they’ll do so by inviting you into their lives and sharing their interests with you. Also, be open to receiving physical affection from them as you grow closer – they use touch as a method of expressing their love and appreciation for you!
These are very charming people and tend to be social butterflies. They often have a magnetic charisma and draw people in to their circle. Many of them tend to make entertaining friends. Their focus is more mental than emotional - they live in the realm of the mind rather than emotions. They will tend to hate boredom, and this means that they often learn how to make their own fun from a very young age. Due to their curious nature they often are full of knowledge for a number of topics and can be seen as very interesting people. They seem to know little bits about almost everything, but outside a few topics, they will have little in-depth knowledge about them. Their curiosity about so many things means that they never quite dwell long enough on one thing to know too much about it.