ISFJ / Aquarius
Who is a Defender (ISFJ)?
Defenders are individuals with the Introverted, Sensing, Feeling and Judging personality traits. They tend to be humble, hard-working, and enthusiastic people who prefer to focus on the details, rather than the bigger picture. Emotionally orientated, defenders are sensitive to other people's feelings and have a deep understanding of their own.
These are loyal, supportive, reliable individuals who are committed to the people they consider important. They will go out of their way to ensure the well-being of those around them, often ahead of their own needs. They have strong organizational ability and prefer working with established policies and procedures. They are meticulous and are good at working with set schedules and deadlines. They are intellectual and abstract thinkers. It can be a little difficult for them to get in touch with their emotions, and they can come off as cold or detached.They like continuing on the path that has already been established. They know how to sustain, grow, extend and nurture. They can be stubborn or rigid, often digging in their heels when challenged.
They are truly warm and kind-hearted, and want to believe the best of people. They value harmony and cooperation, and are likely to be very sensitive to other people's feelings. People value themfor their consideration and awareness, and their ability to bring out the best in others by their firm desire to believe the best. They have a rich inner world that is not usually obvious to observers. They constantly take in information about people and situations that is personally important to them, and store it away. This tremendous store of information is usually startlingly accurate, because theyI have an exceptional memory about things that are important to their value systems. It would not be uncommon for them to remember a particular facial expression or conversation in precise detail years after the event occured, if the situation made an impression.
Committed, faithful and loyal, these people often put the needs of their partners ahead of their own. They are highly committed to family and will do their utmost to ensure the practical needs of the family are met. They’re the tireless servant and will take care of every detail in the household. They believe in the traditional family roles and values, so as husbands they will desire to work hard to provide for the family, while wives would do their utmost to prepare the household and serve their husbands well. They are careful with embarking on new relationships and will take their time to become comfortable with anyone new in their lives. When a Defender/Aquarian is in love, the relationship is part of something bigger than the couple, so they thrive when there’s shared purpose and enthusiasm for the future. They tend to be very egalitarian and open-minded, and as long as it makes you both happy, it’s on the table. That creativity absolutely translates in bed as well. When in love, they are likely to remember little details and pull out every trick they can think of or have heard of to secure your affections. Expect to be treated very generously, as they cannot help themselves and need to please their loved ones.
They need positive feedback from others. In the absence of positive feedback, or in the face of criticism, they get discouraged, and may even become depressed. When down on themselves or under great stress, they begin to imagine all of the things that might go critically wrong in their life. They have strong feelings of inadequacy, and become convinced that "everything is all wrong", or "I can't do anything right". They’re warm, generous, and dependable. They have many special gifts to offer, in their sensitivity to others, and their strong ability to keep things running smoothly.
Holds a grudge